Thursday, December 29, 2016

They're In


Yesterday, my parents were warmly welcomed into their new home.


Thank you for the prayers.


It all went very well.

The paperwork went well.

My parents were okay and, dare I say, even a little excited 
about all the new things to learn and people to meet.

We found out Daddy was the preacher for some family of folks who work there.

We found out one nurse is the granddaughter of church members.

When a person has lived in many places as my parents and I have, 
we tend to know a lot of folks.

So it all went extremely well...

...right up until the very end when the kids and I were leaving
(at 11 p.m.)

and my dad asked to come home...

...and I had to say no.

It was gut-wrenching
and purely heart-breaking.






Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Transition


Today, I will move my parents to a skilled nursing facility 
and I will miss them being at home.


  It is what is best 
and it is time 
but knowing that isn’t going to make it any easier.  
This move has been a while in the making 
and it has been a gut-wrenching, 
heart-breaking, 
and difficult decision.  

In my life, 
it is one of the hardest decisions 
I’ve ever had to make.  
It is second only to having to officially and legally implement 
the Do Not Resuscitate order 
for my unconscious, 
dying husband 
a little over 5 years ago. 

My parents are both accepting and sad about the move 
and 
excited and anxious about a new place 
– much like Methodist preachers and their families are about every move.  

Please pray for a smooth transition for us all.  


Sunday, December 25, 2016

Christmas Sunday

Christmas Sunday
December 25, 2016

HOPE 
and 
PEACE
and
JOY
and
LOVE
and
CHRIST.

The CHRIST candle...
,,,reminding us that JESUS is the light of the world! 


Monday, December 19, 2016

The Steps Of A Good Man...



Today, as I watched the interaction between my father and my son,
it was so very evident that I was watching two good men.

One elderly man,
who has spent so many of his years giving to others,
now on the receiving end to enable him
to retain as much of his dignity as possible
to be the good man he has always been.

One 16 year old young man 
giving so much of himself 
for the good of his grandfather.
Wesley may just be on the brink of adulthood
but in every measure that counts, he is already a good man.

I was blessed to be raised by a good man.

I am blessed to have a part in raising a good man.

And I am blessed to be loved by them both. 





















Sunday, December 18, 2016

4th Sunday In Advent 2016


4th Sunday in Advent
December 18, 2016

HOPE 
and 
PEACE
and
JOY
and
LOVE



Wednesday, December 14, 2016

My View Right Now


Whether it's a good day
or
a bad day...

...sometimes I just have to stop and

enjoy my view.




Monday, December 12, 2016

3rd Sunday In Advent 2016

3rd Sunday in Advent
December 11, 2016

HOPE 
and 
PEACE
and
JOY




Friday, December 9, 2016

2nd Sunday In Advent 2016


Posting late but...

2nd Sunday in Advent
Dec. 4, 2016

HOPE and PEACE


Friday, December 2, 2016

He's 14


He's 14 today.

At 8:00 p.m. exactly.

Happy Birthday, Luke!

I love you!